SharedChat's Co-Parenting room puts both parents and a neutral AI coordinator in one live thread. The coordinator never takes sides, keeps the conversation about the kids and the schedule, and, when a message reads as heated, holds it and offers a calmer version before it sends. Nothing is blocked. Nothing goes out without you.
Invite your co-parent by link. Everything (the swap request, the pickup change, the reply) lives in one place you both see live.
It's written into the room: no winners, no blame, the focus stays on the kids and the logistics. Custody and legal questions are pointed to an attorney, not answered.
Type something heated and the room holds it: "Take a breath. Want to rephrase?" with a calmer version that keeps your point. Use it, or send the original anyway. Your call, every time.
Ask "where did we land on the weekend?" and get a plain, even-handed recap instead of scrolling back through the argument.
Your message reads as heated. A calmer version keeps the focus on the schedule:
OurFamilyWizard, TalkingParents and Kidtime keep court-friendly records, shared calendars and expense logs, and they charge per parent, roughly $99 to $352 a year each. SharedChat doesn't do the paperwork. What it does that they're not built for: put both parents and a neutral third voice in one live conversation. Many families use both.
They need to open your link and sign in to reply, so yes, they're choosing to be in the room. If they won't, you can still use the room on your own to draft the calmer version of what you want to say.
No, and that's the point. It's instructed in writing never to pick a winner between parents. It will help both of you get to a plan; it won't help either of you build a case.
SharedChat isn't designed as a court-record system. If you need documented, admissible records, keep an app like OurFamilyWizard or TalkingParents for that and use SharedChat for the actual conversation.
Never. It pauses and offers a calmer version. "Send anyway" always works. You stay in control of what you say.
No. The free plan covers all six rooms. Plus is $9.99 a month. Your co-parent can be on the free plan.